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As the Baby Boomer generation ages, there are decisions to be made before a health crisis or death impacts the family; reviewing senior living and care options important
Too often I’ve seen children and parents reluctant to talk about the inevitable… we all transition from this life, one day. If you’re unprepared, handling family matters could lead to chaos! I’ve seen disagreements over arrangements and business matters, drive family members to never speak again.
As the Baby Boomer generation ages, decisions should be made before a health crisis impacts your family.
Avoiding Benefits-Paid Liens and Forced Sales
One very important consideration for real estate owners: Being forced to sell property to settle healthcare-related expenses and benefits.
Often, when insurance runs out after illness strikes, the real property of the sick person is liquidated and applied to debts. And, under Medicaid law, after a Medicaid recipient dies, a state must try and recover from the estate any long-term care benefits paid, such as nursing home costs.
When faced with potential long-term, catastrophic illness of a senior, families should explore taking all property out of the senior’s name, or, establish a trust to hold the property, and protect it from potential forced sales and liens.
You can read more about this issue HERE.
The process of protecting assets from being liquidated is complex. There is a small window prior to a death that the transfer of property must happen, in order to be valid protection. If my experience in helping people navigate these waters could be useful to you, please feel free to reach out.
Handling paperwork: Hope for best, prepare for worst
A will is a legal document used to dispose of personal property at death. Wills can also name people to do important jobs, such as allocating personal representatives or executor of one’s estate.
Preparation of documents like a will, living trust, advance health directive, power of attorney, burial arrangements, insurance policy terms and conditions, etc. should be discussed openly between loved ones — or at least with the family member named or appointed executor or trustee of the estate.
Being prepared helps families find it easier to process the loss of loved one. Trying to take care of business matters while dealing with the death of a loved one makes the situation even more emotionally charged and stressful. Make informed decisions that family members agree upon — now. Death and tragedy are part of life. Loved ones should prepare and leave clear directions for how they want things carried out when tragedy strikes.
Make informed decisions on senior living and care
An important tool in making those conversations easier can be found on the internet.
A great source for senior living and care options is only a click away! When I was actively listing and selling homes, one of the publications that I offered to my clients and geographic market area (sellers) was “New LifeStyles,” a publication with wealth of information and answers to many questions you may have about senior living and care options. Today, the information is even easier to access online at www.newlifestyles.com. You’ll find information and listings of various senior living and care options including the following categories, then this is your one-stop-information portal.
Examples of the info found there include:
- Independent Living –Communities where seniors live independently in their own home/unit.
- Assisted Living – A combination of housing, personalized supportive services and health care
- Care Homes – Usually single family homes licensed to provide assistance with medications, bathing, & dressing.
- Respite Care – Temporary care available for short-term stays or specified hours.
- Memory Care – Communities offering specialized programs for residents suffering from Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of memory loss and dementia.
- Nursing Homes – Communities licensed to provide health care and services involved in managing complex and potentially serious medical problems.
- Home Care – Includes providers of licensed health care services in the home, hospital, or residential homes, and companies that provide non-medical assistance.
- Hospice Care – Provided in the home or a senior care community. Services can include pain management and a variety of emotional, spiritual and physical support.
- Continuing Care Retirement Communities – A CCRC combines independent living, assisted living, nursing and sometimes memory care in a single setting.
- Products & Services – Financial, health-related and other valuable products and services designed to meet the varying needs of mature adults.
Presenting your loved ones with a hard copy of the Guide to Senior Living and Care or directing them to this website is a great way to introduce the subject. Review the info at your leisure, with no pressure to take immediate action. The guide provides useful information that will help you prepare for making tough decisions BEFORE the time comes. The publication is well-organized, and provides a wealth of resources including senior programs and services, both public and private. There are different publications for different regions so, first identify your coverage area, and order the appropriate guide.
Don’t procrastinate, go online and download or subscribe to this publication today — you’ll be glad you did!